Ninja So then Socialize is a full Joomla template, which I do not want? Or will T3 just manage the Jomsocial component, so I don't mess with the rest of the settings, templates, pages, etc of our site?
Do I download the T3 framework plugin from the following page? http://www.t3-framework.org/downloads.html
(Note: I don't NEED Socialize I just downloaded it hopwing it would solve our non-working Communkity menu issues.)
My direct problem has been how to get JomSocial's menu's to look and work properly? I cannot find good documentation and need assistance. When clicking any of the links they refer to the T3 framework as you mentioned but I am still attaching screenshots in case just getting the T3 plugin doesn't provide all my answers.
Screenshot #1 is of the main JomSocial page on our support site. This is only accessible to registered users, but as you can see the menu does not drop down to show how to edit your profile or any other menu settings I have been trying to create there. And the little home button won't go anywhere but to the error about T3.

Screenshot #2 is the little dropdown I tried to setup with SC Login so when someone logs in they have a full dropdown offering them places they can go to make use of the community. However all I can get to show up there is "profile" or to "change the profile picture."

Thank you, Blair Corbett