As i said. I have done this via a FRESH install.
I did however follow your suggestions and i deleted all community tables and did another install again.
It is STILL not creating the JomSocial menu
When i try and do it manually its not coming out correctly.
It should be appearing near the js_top area of the JomSocial template but its not.
Instead it just get it in the normal Joomla Head (Left or Right) menu area.